Give the Gift of Forgiveness

Valentine’s Day is just 5 days away. Are you preparing for a special day or sadly remembering that this year you will be spending the day (or evening) by yourself? Yesterday you were asked to remember an incident where you felt unconditional love, not limited to romance but the kind of love that filled your heart and changed your life. This could have been anything from something you remember from childhood, your first love, the birth of a child or any time in your life when you experienced love.

Some of you may have remembered a love relationship and then felt sad because it is no longer part of your life. The love you remember may be accompanied by the pain you also remember when the relationship ended. So for today’s exercise, as we work to create your Valentine’s Day miracle, we are going to focus on forgiveness.

Any healing and transformation work that we do has to include forgiveness. In fact, without forgiveness we are not in the vibration that allows us to create miracles. Forgiveness allows us to remove emotional attachments, cut the energetic cords that bind us to others and our experiences with them, release painful memories and receive closure.

Today, focus on a person who has hurt you in some way. This could be someone who hurt your feelings, betrayed you, maybe it was the person you loved unconditionally and they left the relationship. Don’t spend too much time thinking about who you should focus on, ask yourself ‘who can I forgive to help me create the loving relationship I want in my life’ and then go with the first name that comes to your mind.

Will it be hard to forgive this person? It might be but remember that forgiveness is a gift you give to yourself, not to the other person. With forgiveness you free yourself from carrying the burden of pain and heartache that is around this relationship and all of the events around it. We create all of the details of our reality, even the painful ones. What did you need to learn from the pain that you experienced? Did you know that the resentment, pain and hurt feelings that you carry if you do not forgive someone block a new relationship from coming to you?

So today, let it go, forgive the person and as you are doing that, see yourself as being free of all of the burdens involved. And remember that everything we regret keeps us out of the vibration of miracles. Forgiveness is not only important, it is necessary. Give yourself the gift of forgiveness and free yourself to move into higher vibrations so you can attract the love you desire.

Until tomorrow, I wish you miracles of love in your life.

Jennifer Hoffman
www.enlighteninglife.com
www.urieheals.com
www.30daystoeverydaymiracles.com